The Dos and Don’ts of Preparing for and Going Through a Divorce

Divorce is one of the most challenging transitions you can face, emotionally, financially, and legally. The process can feel overwhelming, but taking the right steps early can help protect your rights and set the stage for a smoother outcome.

Below are practical dos and don’ts to guide you as you prepare for and navigate your divorce.

DO: Get Organized Early

Gather key documents before the process begins. This includes bank statements, tax returns, pay stubs, mortgage papers, retirement account statements, and any prenuptial agreements. Having these ready will save time, reduce stress, and give your attorney a clear picture of your financial situation.

DON’T: Make Major Financial Decisions Without Legal Advice

Avoid transferring large amounts of money, changing beneficiaries, or selling property before consulting your attorney. These actions can be seen as attempting to hide assets and may harm your case.

DO: Prioritize Your Children’s Well-Being

If children are involved, focus on creating stability and minimizing conflict in front of them. Courts place a strong emphasis on the best interests of the child, and your behavior during this time matters.

DON’T: Use Social Media to Vent

Posting about your divorce, your spouse, or your case online can be used against you. Even seemingly harmless updates can be taken out of context. Keep details private and avoid discussing your case publicly.

DO: Seek Professional Support

Divorce is not just a legal process, it’s also emotional. Consider talking to a therapist, counselor, or support group to help you manage the stress and make clear-minded decisions.

DON’T: Neglect Your Future Planning

While it’s easy to get caught up in the present, remember to think ahead. Update your will, beneficiaries, and financial plans once the divorce is finalized.

DO: Hire an Experienced Family Law Attorney

An experienced lawyer can guide you through every step and help you achieve the best possible outcome. The sooner you get legal advice, the better prepared you’ll be.

If you’re considering divorce or are in the middle of one, our family law team is here to help you navigate each stage with confidence and compassion.